Marriage

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Additional talking points, articles, and research coming soon.

For access to The Marriage Vow, click here.

 

 

Four Talking Points Regarding Same-Sex “Marriage”

 

1.  Same-sex families always deny children either their mother or father.

 

2.  Same-sex family is a vast, untested social experiment with children.

 

3.  Where does it stop?  How do we say “no” to group marriage?

 

4.  Schools will be forced to teach that the homosexual family is normal.  Churches will be legally pressured to perform same-sex ceremonies.

 

 

26 Reasons Why Marriage Matters

For statistical data supporting the following, go to Institute for American Values

 

Family

1.  Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers and mothers have good relationships with their children.

2.  Cohabitation is not the functional equivalent of marriage.

3.  Growing up outside an intact marriage increases the likelihood that children will themselves divorce or become unwed parents.

4.  Marriage is a virtually universal human institution.

5.  Marriage, and a normative commitment to marriage, foster high-quality relationships between adults, as well as between parents and children.

6.  Marriage has important biosocial consequences for adults and children.

 

Economics

7.  Divorce and unmarried childbearing increase poverty for both children and mothers.

8.  Married couples seem to build more wealth on average than singles or cohabiting couples.

9.  Marriage reduces povety and material harship for disadvantaged women and their children.

10.  Minorities benefit economically from marriage.

11.  Married men earn more money than do single men with similar education and job histories.

12.  Parental divorce (or failure to marry) appears to increase children’s risk of school failure.

13.  Parental divorce reduces the likelihood that children will graduate from college and achieve high-status jobs.

 

Physical Health and Longevity

14.  Children who live with their own two married parents enjoy better physical health, on average, than do children in other family forms.

15.  Parental marriage is associated with a sharply lower risk of infant mortality.

16.  Marriage is associated with reduced rates of alcohol and substance abuse for both adults and teens.

17.  Married people, especially married men, have longer life expectancies than do otherwise similar singles.

18.  Marriage is associated with better health and lower rates of injury, illness, and disability for both men and women.

19.  Marriage seems to be associated with better helath among minorities and the poor.

 

Mental Health and Emotional Well-Being

20.  Children whose parents divorce have higher rates of psychological distress and mental illness.

21.  Divorce appears to increase significantly the risk of suicide.

22.  Married mothers have lower rates of depression than do single or cohabiting mothers.

23.  Boys raised in single-parent families are more likely to engage in delinquent and criminal behavior.

24.  Marriage appears to reduce the risk that adults will be either perpetrators or victims of crime.

25.  Married women appear to have a lower risk of experiencing domestic violence than to cohabiting or dating women.

26.  A child who is not living with his or her own two married parents is at a greater risk for child abuse.

Source: Why Marriage Matters, Second Edition: Twenty-Six Conclusions from the Social Sciences, Institue for American Values